How to Get a Schengen Visa for Your Thai Girlfriend: Step-by-Step Guide (2025)

Real advice, clear steps, and downloadable templates from a couple who succeeded. If you want your Thai girlfriend or fiancée to visit Europe on a 90-day tourist visa, read this guide carefully!

Why This Guide?

Are you planning to apply for a Schengen visa for your Thai girlfriend and feel lost in the paperwork? All you can find is conflicting advice, and endless checklists? We’ve been through this process twice, learned the hard way, and built a complete roadmap. Here’s what we wish we’d had from the start: a clear, step-by-step guide based on real experience, not just embassy websites!

Before we start:

We currently offer guides, templates, and personal experience for applying to the following EU countries from Thailand, specifically for applications submitted via VFS Global:

Austria, Bulgaria, Croatia, Cyprus, Czech Republic, Denmark, Estonia, Finland, Germany, Hungary, Italy, Latvia, Slovenia, Sweden, The Netherlands.

Our website and resources can also be helpful for non-EU Schengen countries available through VFS Global, including:

Switzerland, Norway, Iceland, and Liechtenstein.

Our guides and templates are based on successful C-type (tourist) Schengen visa applications submitted through VFS Global in Thailand. There may be small differences in requirements or processes for non-EU countries, so we recommend always double-checking the specific embassy or VFS Global requirements for your chosen destination.

If your destination country is on these lists, you’ll find everything you need to get started right here!

Step 1: Choose the Right Schengen Country

Where should you apply for a Schengen visa for your Thai girlfriend?

You must submit your application via VFS Global Thailand for the embassy or consulate of the country where your girlfriend will spend the most time.

Example: If you plan to visit Hungary for 2 weeks and Italy for 1 week, you should book your VFS Global appointment for the Hungarian Embassy.

Tip: Check the visa appointment availability at different embassies through VFS Global. Some have shorter waiting times or a smoother process than others!

Step 2: Gather All Required Documents

Here’s what you (and your girlfriend) will need for a C-type (90-day) Schengen tourist visa:

  • Completed Schengen Visa Application Form
  • Valid passport (at least 3 months beyond the trip, with 2 empty pages)
  • Recent passport photos (per Schengen photo rules)
  • Flight reservations (round trip – can be “dummy” bookings)
  • Hotel reservation or proof of accommodation (see step 4)
  • Travel health insurance covering at least €30,000 for all Schengen states
  • Proof of sufficient funds (bank statements, income, etc.)
  • Invitation Letter (see step 3)
  • Proof of relationship (photos, chat logs, Relationship Letter, etc.)
  • Sponsorship Letter (if you are covering expenses)
  • Additional documents for special cases (employment certificate, marriage certificate, proof of ties to Thailand, etc.)

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Step 3: Write a Strong Invitation Letter

This is one of the most important documents! It should:

  • Be written by the European partner (host)
  • Clearly explain the purpose of the visit, your relationship, and trip details
  • State who will pay for the trip

Not sure how to write it? Use our Invitation Letter Template – proven, customizable, and embassy-approved!

Step 4: Prove Accommodation

If your girlfriend will stay at your home: provide an Accommodation Proof Letter from you, with your full address and a copy of your utility bill or rental agreement.

If you’ll stay at hotels: attach confirmed bookings for the whole trip.

Need a ready-made template? Get our Accommodation Proof Letter here.

Step 5: Prove Your Relationship Is Genuine

This is where most applications fail!

What embassies want to see:

  • Photos together over time and in different locations
  • Screenshots of regular chats, calls, video conversations (especially over months/years)
  • A Relationship Letter telling your story (how you met, how you stayed in touch, family meetings, plans for the future)
  • Any trips you took together, tickets, receipts, etc.

Get our Relationship Letter Template + photo pagemakes your evidence organized and credible!

Step 6: Financial Proof & Sponsorship

  • If your girlfriend has enough savings: bank statements in her name (last 3 months, with regular activity).
  • If you will support her financially: include your own bank statements and a Sponsorship Letter confirming your support.

We offer a Sponsorship Letter Template with sample wording and instructions – download here.

Step 7: Book Your VFS Appointment & Pay the Fees

  • Book online at VFS Global for the embassy of your main destination.
  • Appointments fill up quickly—book as early as possible!
  • Choose extra services if needed. (We used form filling service, it’s cheap and very helpful.)
  • Print your appointment confirmation and bring it with you.

Tip: Arrive early, bring all originals and copies (keep documents in order).

Step 8: Prepare for the Appointment

  • Double-check every document against your checklist!
  • Put originals and copies in separate folders.
  • Print flight and hotel bookings, even if you sent them electronically.
  • Dress appropriately, be polite and answer questions honestly.

Make sure you have everything you need! Download our Schengen Visa Document Checklist PDF

Step 9: Submit Application and Wait for Decision

  • At the appointment, submit all documents, provide fingerprints (if required), and answer any questions.
  • Typical processing time: 2–3 weeks (can be faster or longer).
  • You’ll receive a notification when your passport is ready for pickup. Or if you choose mail service, then VFS will mail the passport to you.

Step 10: After Approval (or If Refused…)

If approved:

  • Double-check your visa sticker for correct dates and entries! Sometimes they grant you a visa for a shorter or longer duration without any explanation.
  • Book real flights/hotels if you used dummy bookings before.
  • Enjoy your time together in Europe!

If refused:

  • Read the refusal letter carefully; you can appeal or re-apply.
  • Review your documents. Often the reason is weak evidence of relationship, insufficient funds, or missing paperwork.
  • Our guides and templates can help you address these gaps for the next application.

FAQ: Common Questions

How much money do I need to show?

Usually €30–50/day, plus enough for flights, hotels, insurance, etc.

How soon can I apply?

Up to 6 months before your trip (but 2–3 months is typical).

Do we need to be married?

No, tourist visitor visas are for unmarried couples too, but more evidence is required.

Can my girlfriend work or study on this visa?

No, tourist visas are strictly for tourism and visiting friends/family.

Can I download all templates and real examples in one place?

Yes! See our own Complete Document Package It’s the exact document package we used and it got accepted on the first try within 2 weeks! (Anonymized)

Final tips for your schengen visa application

  • Start early! The process of gettinga Schengen visa for your thai girlfriend takes time, and mistakes cause delays.
  • Be honest, consistent, and organized. Don’t over-explain, but never hide important facts.
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Good luck and may your Schengen journey together be the start of something beautiful!

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